The internet has drastically changed the way that we live our lives. It is now easier to stay connected with friends and family worldwide. One of the most popular ways to use the internet is through social media platforms like Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram. While...
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Do siblings ever get split up in a divorce?
You're getting divorced and you have two children. You naturally assume that you and your ex are going to divide custody so that both kids live with one of you and then they switch over to the other house. But then your spouse suggests splitting up the custody between...
Can you share custody of infants and toddlers?
Once your child is old enough to have their own opinions, you will probably feel confident asking for shared custody when you divorce or separate from their other parent. However, when your child is still quite young, you may mistakenly believe that only sole custody...
3 issues that can invalidate your prenup in Illinois
These days, it is not uncommon for a couple to sign a prenuptial agreement before tying the knot. Done right, a prenuptial agreement can help couples separate private assets from marital assets in the event of a divorce. Unfortunately, many people learn that the...
2 ways to minimize divorce trauma for the kids
Parents who are considering divorce often worry about how their decisions will affect their children. Will they handle the split well, or will they feel deeply traumatized? If you do make the decision to split, it’s important to understand that you can take steps to...
Is the divorce rate dropping? It depends on your age.
In the 1970s and 80s, the divorce rate increased quickly. This is what led to the common expression that 50% of marriages end in divorce. The statistic is often disputed, but it's also often repeated. In any case, the increase in divorce rates was fairly shocking to...
What can you do when your ex doesn’t follow the custody order?
In Illinois, parents who separate will typically share custody. If they don't settle on arrangements that they both agree with independently, the Illinois family courts can issue a custody order that allocates parenting time and other parental responsibilities to each...
How do you balance work and your children after divorce?
Making the transition from a parent who’s married to one who’s single is often challenging. For a parent who’s accustomed to being around for their children, finding a way to earn an income and still meet the child’s needs is usually difficult. Finding the balance...
Setting rules for children’s use of electronics across homes
If you’re divorcing while your child is still young enough to be happy with a children’s play phone and tablet, you may not have considered including anything about electronics in your parenting plan. However, the day will come soon enough when they’ll expect to have...
Could a “sleep divorce” prevent a legal divorce?
Married couples don't just share a home. They typically share a room and a bed as well. Although there is something reassuring and romantic about going to bed with your spouse every night, sharing a sleeping space can also be very disruptive to both of you. Whether...
