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The problem with being pressured into marriage 

Getting married is one of the biggest decisions a person can make. The wedding day has the potential to be the best day of your life, and the life that can come after may be all that you’ve dreamt about. 

Unfortunately, the reality is that many marriages simply don’t work out. Why do some people feel pressured into marriage and what types of issues can arise from this? 

Being handed an ultimatum 

Couples should make major decisions together, and while marriage is a sign of commitment, it isn’t the be-all and end-all. Not getting married right away does not necessarily mean you are not committed. This is a decision that should be made mutually, and you shouldn’t be pressurized into it. 

The fear of being left behind 

You’ve watched most of your friends tie the knot in recent years, and you’re so happy for them. However, you almost feel left out. The truth is that you’re not necessarily missing out on anything by not being married yet. You have plenty of time ahead of you and your big day will come at some point. 

Pressure to have children 

Everyone around you keeps asking when you and your partner are planning on having children. They have good intentions, but it’s starting to bring you down. You decide to suggest marriage to your partner, but this is largely based on the desires of other people, rather than your own. Starting a family and beginning your married life are huge steps, and you should take these steps only when you are truly ready. 

Rushing into a marriage because of external pressures has the potential to bring unique challenges. If you feel like your marriage is not for you and you want a divorce, try not to worry, there are a host of legal options available to you. Reaching out to a knowledgeable party will help ensure you take the appropriate steps based on your needs.  

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